Monday, March 28, 2011

The mindset of a libra.

Libra: the only inanimate sign..while other signs boast strong animals..or people. Mine simply displays a scale. And in so many words..that is truly what I am. I thrive off of balance..without it, I feel completely lost. To the point where it's impossible for me to focus on anything else, I need it. Things that would appear small, and unimportant, are viewed large, and life changing in my eyes. I lack the capability of just walking away. I don't know how. Knowing that someone is unhappy with me, is like being pierced with a thousand thorns. I must always make you happy, and if you're not..I'm only thinking of ways to change that. My view on things tend to be a little different than most. I will always hope for the best, instead of settling for what has been given. I have the constant need to be attached or needed by someone. That is when I feel most at ease, but I tend to stay in relationships longer than needed for fear of losing that comforting feeling. Words are like candy to me..they can be the most rewarding thing, but to much can also hurt you. I like to chose my words carefully but also have a hard time expressing them, when placed on the spot. It takes time to build a masterpiece and I feel my words are just that. I constantly want to know what you're thinking, so I can adjust myself accordingly, I work well in most situations. Challenges excite me. My mind tends to be a on and off switch..what I wanted one day..could be the last thing I want today. I lose interest in things and people rather quickly, so the constant need to be mentally stimulated is vital to keep my attention. I love things I don't understand, but also loath it for that very reason. I'm a messy neat freak. I'm attracted to those that offer some type of artistic ability, especially those that can teach me something I never knew before. Those that find me secretive..need only to listen more closely..I say everything you want or desire to hear..just in a different way. I like small details, and I notice them as well, even when I don't acknowledge it. I like to test those close to me, just to see if they really know me, or to see if they really listen. The idea of someone truly understanding me..is love. I lack the energy or time to pretend to be anything other than myself, and although I might apologize for my randomness or weirdness..I don't mean it..what I'm really saying is..take it or leave it. I'm annoyed when people aren't clear to me..reading between the lines is cute..but not in my case. I find it hard to make someone happy, if I'm not clear on what it is they want. I like hands, it's one of the first things I notice on a person. I think hands say a lot. I'm extremely gullible and naïve about most things, simply because the idea of trusting someone, is easier than not trusting them, so when finding out I've been lied to. It's almost impossible for me to view them the same, whether I tell you or not. The best way to hurt me is distance. Since I dislike being alone. I get crushes rather easily..and I can move on to the next just as fast. I live in this fantasy world, I can imagine anything..there really are no limits. I love hard, and I tend to get engulfed by it, but I like that feeling. Once in a relationship, most of my attention is placed on that person, they become my world, and I enjoy that. When in love, I feel the need to tell you, or show you..the best way "I" know how. All of my actions are based on another. I hate conflicts, and saying no to people. Which means I tend to do things that I don't want to do, just to make others happy. My view on love.. Acknowledge my existence, and my importance to you, and I will give you the world. I just need to feel needed. That is what makes me a libra.

Libra sexuality:
I tend to be attracted physically to all things beautiful, and charm is a added bonus. I can often be masculine in my ways. I'm often fueled by resistance, but don't make me fight to long, I'll begin to question if it's worth it. Although I love challenges, I also view myself as being pretty good at what I do, and forms of objection are not my strong suit. I view seduction as a art. I'm good at controlling most of my fears so I tend to appear calm and collected, even if that is not the case.
Contrary to some beliefs, my favorite form of intimacy is cuddling, it is while doing this, my mind and hands tend to wonder. One of the sexiest things to do for me, is simply listening. I can be extremely sexual, although the act is nice, talking about it to me is even better. I take most of my pleasure from satisfying the needs of others, verbal and physical reaction are what I thrive on. Some of my weaknesses tend to be: I'm often told I can be misleading in what it is I desire. I can be needy to some, especially to those who often need their space. I can be selfish at times. I tend to flirt, even with people I'm not attracted to. Some of my strengths are: My ability to charm, my desire to please, honest display of affection, what you see, is usually what you get it.

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